EMDR THERAPY

A Specialist, Evidence-Based Approach to Healing from Trauma and Distressing Experiences

What Is EMDR?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing. It is a structured, evidence-based therapy originally developed to treat post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and is now used for a wide range of mental health concerns.

EMDR helps your brain process distressing memories that have become “stuck” — memories that continue to cause emotional pain, anxiety, flashbacks, or negative beliefs about yourself long after the event has passed.

Rather than focusing primarily on talking through difficult experiences in detail, EMDR uses a technique called bilateral stimulation (such as guided eye movements, tapping, or auditory tones) to help your brain reprocess these memories in a way that reduces their emotional intensity.

Think of it this way: when a distressing event happens and your brain doesn’t fully process it, the memory can stay “raw” — as vivid and upsetting as the day it happened. EMDR helps your brain file that memory in the way it would have if it had been processed normally, so it becomes a memory you can recall without being overwhelmed by it.

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What Can EMDR Help With?

EMDR has a strong evidence base for treating:

  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and complex trauma
  • Single-event trauma (accidents, assaults, sudden loss)
  • Childhood trauma and adverse childhood experiences
  • Anxiety and panic
  • Phobias
  • Grief and loss
  • Distressing life events that continue to affect you

 

EMDR is recognised as an effective treatment for PTSD by the World Health Organization (WHO), the Australian Psychological Society, and Phoenix Australia (Australia’s National Centre of Excellence in Posttraumatic Mental Health).

How Does EMDR Work?

EMDR follows a structured eight-phase approach. You don’t need to remember these — I’ll guide you through each step. But it can help to know what to expect. Select each phase for more information. 

Phase 1: History and Planning

We talk about what’s brought you to therapy, your history, and what you’d like to work on. Together we identify the memories or experiences that are causing the most distress.

Before we start processing, I’ll teach you techniques to help you manage strong emotions — both during sessions and between them. This phase is about making sure you feel safe, grounded, and ready.

We identify a specific target memory and the negative belief connected to it (for example, “I’m not safe” or “It was my fault”), as well as the positive belief you’d like to replace it with.

This is the core of EMDR. While you hold the target memory in mind, I guide you through sets of bilateral stimulation (in telehealth, this is typically guided eye movements on screen, or self-tapping). You don’t need to describe the memory in detail — the processing happens internally. Over the course of these phases, the memory typically becomes less distressing and the negative belief loses its grip.

At the start of each new session, we check in on how you’re feeling, what’s shifted, and whether the memory still carries distress. We continue until the target memory feels resolved.

For clients aged 15–17, a parent or guardian is required to provide consent before we begin, as a matter of practice policy. However, the content of our sessions remains confidential unless there is a safety concern. We’ll talk through exactly how this works at the start.

EMDR via Telehealth

Yes — EMDR can be effectively delivered via telehealth. Research supports that telehealth EMDR produces outcomes comparable to in-person delivery for PTSD and trauma-related conditions.

During telehealth EMDR sessions, bilateral stimulation is adapted for the online format. This typically involves:

  • Following a moving dot or my finger on your screen (guided eye movements)
  • Self-administered tapping (I’ll teach you the technique — it’s simple and comfortable)

For telehealth EMDR to work well, you’ll need:

  • A private, comfortable space where you won’t be interrupted
  • A stable internet connection
  • A device with a screen large enough to comfortably follow visual cues (laptop or tablet recommended over phone)

What to Expect

EMDR is not a quick fix, but many people notice a shift within the first few processing sessions. Some things to know:

  • We don’t rush into processing. The preparation phases are just as important. I’ll make sure you feel ready before we begin any memory processing.
  • You stay in control throughout. You can pause or stop at any time. EMDR is collaborative, not something that’s done to you.
  • You don’t need to describe every detail. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR doesn’t require you to narrate the traumatic event in full. The processing happens internally.
  • Some sessions may feel intense. It’s normal to experience strong emotions during processing. I’ll support you through this and make sure you leave each session feeling grounded.
  • Processing can continue between sessions. You may notice new thoughts, feelings, or memories coming up in the days after a session. This is a normal part of the healing process.

Is EMDR Right for Me?

EMDR may be a good fit if:

  • You’ve experienced a traumatic event (or multiple) that continues to affect your daily life
  • You feel “stuck” in patterns of anxiety, avoidance, or distress connected to past experiences
  • Traditional talk therapy has helped with understanding, but you still feel the emotional weight of what happened
  • You find it difficult to talk about traumatic experiences in detail and want an approach that doesn’t require this

EMDR may not be the right starting point if you’re currently in crisis, experiencing active psychosis, or don’t yet have sufficient emotional stability and coping strategies. In these cases, we’d begin with stabilisation work first and move to EMDR when you’re ready.

If you’re unsure whether EMDR is right for you, that’s completely okay. We’ll discuss it together in your early sessions, and I’ll always recommend the approach I think will be most helpful for your specific situation.

Ready to Get Started?

If you’d like to explore whether EMDR could help you, you’re welcome to book an appointment or send an enquiry email. 

There’s no obligation and no pressure — we’ll work out together whether this approach is the right fit.

If you are in crisis or immediate danger, please call 000. For 24/7 mental health support: Lifeline 13 11 14 | Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 | Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467